Why is dating so difficult
And this fuels further traumatization and disconnection.
For those truly desiring a long-term relationship, this can create frustration and a major barrier.
Many gay men lament the challenges they have with meeting dating prospects and maintaining those relationships once established.
It’s one of the primary problems singles share in therapists’ and love coaches’ offices around the country.
American society doesn’t teach us how to date — it’s basically a wing-it, fake-it-til-you-make-it, and trial-by-error approach that we’ve had to espouse.
This lack of education and training in dating and relationships puts all of us, regardless of sexual orientation, at a considerable disadvantage to finding a compatible mate.
We now say things on these platforms that we would never say to another human being in a face-to-face context.