Start dating after seperation
Scenario One If you have children and are planning to expose the children to someone you intend to date, you should be sure this person has the character and moral qualities of someone you are willing to have around your children.If this person’s character and moral qualities are in question, the other parent of your children could use your involvement with this person as a reason to try to change the custody arrangement.They met young and had totally different views on everything.He spent 10 years saying, “well maybe after (insert life event) happens, things will get better.” They did counseling, they tried having a bunch of reconnecting vacations, all kinds of stuff.Even if you know your marriage is really, truly over, you still need to give yourself some time and space."Although there's no 'magic' time frame by which one is ready to date, I typically recommend that one wait about a year," Jones says.He says the marriage was never good and he knew a year before the separation that things were over.
He/she would try to make the claim that you were involved with this new romantic interest before you were separated, and he/she would offer your post separation conduct as corroborative evidence to the claim that the relationship predated the separation.
I have been with my Boyfriend or Best Friend for awhile now, but I have caught a lot of slack for it because of when we met.