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But be careful, you could be taking it to the extreme and making something out of nothing, missing what’s right in front of you.
Sometimes you get in your own way when you overthink things and you can come across as indecisive, insecure, not confident, and it can begin to take a toll on your self-esteem.
If you value honesty and integrity, you need to act this way as well to attract someone with those qualities,” she explains.
“This is a violation of trust, and a huge question mark to your relationship.
My single friends and I often joke about the advice we’re constantly given by our parents, our coupled-up friends and basically, anyone who hears yes, we’re ‘still single’ and yes, ‘still looking.’ The words of wisdom are never delivered with any malicious intent and really, are meant to raise our spirits and ensure we don’t adopt a mostly-bitter attitude toward finding our life partner.
But the kicker that’s humorous – especially if you’ve been dating for quite some time, like I have – is that all advice seems to contradict itself.
If you can not trust this person, you either have some personal work to do, or you are with someone you can not trust.
Neither makes for a healthy relationship right now, so address it ASAP,” she notes.
These things can damage your chances if you are on the dating scene.