Mystery dating method
He does not embrace his real nature of virile man who has needs…he does not act according to his deep instinct of male.Remember that a woman in general does not want to feel responsible for her own seduction.Besides, they love the men who assume themselves and take what they want (alpha characteristic).Sometimes even, they pay everything for them : serious mistake (if you chase several hares at the same time it’s going to be expensive & by paying for a girl, you make her feel indebted to you… It is too much romanticized, old man-game and inappropriate.This legend according to which “nice guys” fuck “hot girls” that is taught as morality in the Hollywood movies feeds their fantasy (being loved “for what I am without needing to make any real effort”). The truth is that if you want to take out your pin of the game, you have to be ambitious during your dates.Now, let’s talk about what is some shit (preconceived ideas and old lousy fantasies).– The fantasy of the man who has to court the woman : one basically always assumes that it is the man who has to “hunt” (chase) the woman… Even if it corresponds more or less to the laws of the evolutionary psychology (a woman looks for a man who has enough resources to take care of her children)…
– The fantasy of the nice guy: the average man is afraid of being a man in our societies.I know a lot of people who say that the best part is the game of seduction… I agree, it can be funny during a moment, but one day, it will be necessary to do something more concrete (besides people often say so because they are too scared to take action).I remember a girl who wanted to play this silly game with me then I decided to don’t sleep with her before the 10th date.. I can assure you that she did not love that (nevertheless she was a classy girl: a working girl from a good family) and I’ve never been able to get a 8th date. you try to chase two rabbits at the same time), the less you care if you sleep with her during at first date or not.– Acting in a more and more intimate way during the date.
Too many dates finish with a strange, clumsy and inopportune kiss in front of her door or in the car because of a lack of physical escalation during the date. Because it clarifies things : you do not have the slightest intention of finishing in the friendzone.
By making her comfortable with the sexual subjects, you set up the frame according to which ““.