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He would challenge us to try masturbating without lust.

Well, perhaps I’m just not gifted in this area, but I found it quite impossible. I had a seminary professor who mentioned that when he traveled extensively, he didn’t feel it was a sin when he masturbated thinking about his wife.

Oh, the passion and zeal we could have in our lives if we wouldn’t make these trade-offs! So ugly, in fact, that when the Bible prohibits it, we immediately vow to stop, even though we have no idea what the heck it is.

In later lessons, we’ll get into further steps to fight temptation, but for now, I’ll give a couple of helpful tactics you might employ in your battle to weed masturbation out of your life. It means excessive living: overeating, over- drinking, over exercising, oversleeping, “over-TVing” (new word), etc.

A godly man who taught me as a young Christian used to say to our men’s small group Bible study that while the Bible doesn’t mention masturbation, it clearly states that lust is a sin.

But I don’t think I’m alone, especially if you’ve had a sexually active past. He certainly brings up an interesting nuance, which I would probably ponder if it didn’t bring to my mind images of my professor that, frankly, make me never want to have sex again.

As much as we find these exceptions quite rational, even appealing, we would still say that masturbation falls short of God’s design for us sexually and is, therefore, something we should avoid.

It’s the little things like this that blunt our ability to meet with Him or hear His voice. It puts a veil between God and us, and that is why it is worth removing from our lives.

As John Piper says in his book Desiring God, “It’s not that we sin because we desire our happiness too much, it’s that we don’t desire it enough.” When I eat a candy bar instead of a salad, it is not because I cared too much about what my body wanted. We have momentary needs for intimacy that are met by masturbation, but what we trade off is the far greater intimacy with God.I honestly wish I felt as bad about, say, lying, envy or murder.