Married couples dating stories
In a number of cases, he shares, the male would then suggest another male become involved with his wife.
He’s not able to satisfy her and he’s literally decided to bring someone else in,” notes Menzise. Most people wouldn’t believe how common a practice this is with a relationship: A man literally finding another to have sex with their wife.
Seku says, “Marriage is a great club to belong to say ‘I’m married’ and flash the ring.” He says he meets many men whose “intention is to be exclusive, but it’s not working for them.
For some men and their partners, this lifestyle is more than acceptable.
For them, the solution is needs met but without letting the wife know.” Seku suggests both parties practice being open.
That is, “free and open to date other people, and connect organically.” According to Seku the best approach is when authenticity is key. Jeff Menzise, Doctor of Clinical Psychology and couples coach, is often referred and requested as a neutral party-mediator between couples considering opening up their relationship as a form of enhancement.
” He finds that the one who is most vocal is the one who initiated the counseling session.
“I typically am not incorrect with what I see when it comes to the desire to expand, and the dynamics of relationships to include other people.
One he rekindled a relationship with during his proposal to me. I’m more social,” says Mys Quiraa, a 34-year-old couples counselor and founder of Sacred Awakenings. They decided to begin open relating after eight years of ups and downs.