Just started dating
Here’s what moving too fast when you just start dating looks like: Idealizing or romanticizing the person or relationship: To paint a picture in your head of who someone is and what they mean to you after just a few dates is unfair to both of you.
If you’re someone who love’s love, try to be present when getting to know a person and avoid daydreaming and fantasizing about your future together.
According to Joyce Catlett of Psych Alive, some of the most common reasons people move too fast during the dating process is because they have codependent tendencies, an anxious attachment style, and/or lack boundaries.
Overcoming these internalized coping mechanisms are vital if you hope to have success in dating and building happy and healthy relationships.
Give him your favorite book, or one that you could read together and then talk about it.
There's a reason tha hardcover books make great gifts, and no, that reason is not "they look soooo good on my built-in bookshelf." They can provide you with amazing, smart, interesting, provocative conversation.
OK, maybe nobody says that, but a quirky mug that can give a coffee drinker a chuckle in the morning is a pretty good (and not crazy-expensive) gift.
Don’t commit to someone before you actually know them.
It won’t leave them feeling particularly special, either.