Dating needy people
If you want to avoid looking clingy, you have to do better.
So just have a mental plan for the events that trigger you most.
Most people respond to life on an ad-hoc, reactive basis.
That means that when something comes up, they just act out of reflexes.
You’ll find yourself reacting to the things people say, instead of holding true to your own inner compass. Most women who are on the insecure end of the spectrum often compensate by trying to control their man.I think the frustration of that inequity causes can create a sense of urgency that's often branded as one type of neediness or another.