Dating christian widows
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And now, it helps people who want to love again be comforted by the fact that basically, although we can't fathom being in love with two people on Earth, don't worry about it or think about it too much because in the afterlife it won't matter.
But something that was supposed to comforting causes me more pain.
However, some bumps along the process could possibly be avoided by not “crossing the border” from widow to divorcee.
Sometimes the only thing that gets me through the day is thinking that one day we'll be reunited.
But I don't want to be reunited and have the same love for him that I have for everyone else, and vice versa.
I told her that's not in the plans for now and she said "Well, you do know Ben will never know you as his wife ever again, right?
" She said that in heaven he's looking down on me with love, but not the same love that we shared on earth where I was his wife.
I feel like all of these philosophies denegrate to a base level so many things that have meaning to me, like love, personality, individualism, and spousal relationships.