Just like there is a profile for the borderline personality type, there is also a profile for the kind of man that they often choose to partner with.
The type of personality that so often gets caught up in a relationship with a woman with traits of BPD is what we might call a “nice guy” type.
Because of this tendency, our relationships pose a difficult challenge for us.
When we enter a relationship, we are expected to be able to give up our self-centered ways and treat our partner’s interests as equally important as our own.
This is a guarantee that she will not be able to find in the average partner.
There is, however, a more ominous side to this seemingly perfect union.
Many nice-guy types are willing to accept these flaws.
This personality type truly enjoys giving and often find they need nothing more in return than a feeling of being appreciated.